Lessons can also be drawn from the region’s own experience. Consider the 2015 Indonesian death penalty saga: while the Filipino convict Mary Jane Veloso was spared execution through the quiet, calibrated diplomacy of the Philippines government, the Australians Andrew Chan and Myuran Sukumaran were not as fortunate. It is a poignant reminder that in Southeast Asia, diplomacy often succeeds best when practiced with subtlety rather than spectacle.
Nonetheless, it would also be naïve to assume that the ASEAN way operates in a vacuum. While dialogue remains the rule of the game, real influence is often shaped by soft persuasion, informal coalitions, peer dynamics, and the strategic calculus of dominant players. Understanding such informal architecture might be an opportunity for Timor-Leste.
One such opportunity lies in the country’s evolving relationship with China. As Beijing deepens its engagement with both Dili and Naypyidaw, Timor-Leste enjoys a potential leverage point that should not be underestimated. It is not beyond imagination for statesmen of the stature of Prime Minister Xanana Gusmão or President José Ramos-Horta to engage in quiet, high-level diplomacy with Beijing, deploying personal rapport to shape perceptions and gently calibrate regional pressure where it matters most.
Despite junta’s objection, Timor-Leste’s accession is not a question of “if” or even “when.” The country has long operated as a de facto member of the ASEAN family. Its continued participation as an observer, the establishment of a clear accession roadmap, the recent summit’s statement, and the absence of outright rejection since its formal application in 2011, particularly from ASEAN’s founding members, all suggest implicit recognition of its rightful regional role. This should render such objection “inconsequential and irrelevant”, as noted by President Ramos-Horta.
Still, the regional game is subtle and layered. Timor-Leste will continue to deal with Myanmar, even more intensively and extensively, especially when it acquires full membership. It will also continue to unquestionably face similar complexities in the future given the present changing geopolitical dynamics. Timor-Leste will need to advance its foreign policy with a refined blend of cultural fluency, strategic agility, and when needed, the power of silent diplomacy.